Is zing for men purely physical while for women it's some confusing combination of emotional and physical?
Can deep respect and abiding affection morph its way to zing?
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From personal experience, I find that the initial zing is pretty much physical. As the relationship develops with all its *good* aspects of getting to know and appreciate one another, the zing expands into the emotional and mental areas. Note I said "expands," which means in addition to the physical. If, at that stage, she turns me on emotionally and mentally I'm going to want to jump on her, and it's even better than ever. If there came a day when I lost interest in, uh, jumping... I don't know what I'd do or how I'd feel. Perhaps that'd be because of a decline in the mental/emotional. I don't know.
"They" do say that deep respect... can indeed morph into zing.
1 comment:
From personal experience, I find that the initial zing is pretty much physical. As the relationship develops with all its *good* aspects of getting to know and appreciate one another, the zing expands into the emotional and mental areas. Note I said "expands," which means in addition to the physical. If, at that stage, she turns me on emotionally and mentally I'm going to want to jump on her, and it's even better than ever. If there came a day when I lost interest in, uh, jumping... I don't know what I'd do or how I'd feel. Perhaps that'd be because of a decline in the mental/emotional. I don't know.
"They" do say that deep respect... can indeed morph into zing.
Just blabbing,
Kayaker
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