Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Random Thoughts on Pre-existing Conditions

1. Do all men need to be admired/desired by all women (or as many women as possible)?
2. When a man says, "I'm in love with you", isn't it safe to assume that he's going to narrow his focus to only you? And what are you supposed to think when he continues on and on with his broad focus?
3. Do men recognize the difference between truly needy and controlling/manipulative?
4. Do men understand that women can be very manipulative? Or do they translate that into neediness or interest?
5. Does the man exist who truly embraces monogamy?

And my final thought: there needs to be a legal process synonymous with divorce for people who are only engaged or in a long-term relationship. Without it, things tend to drag on and on and on, to the detriment of any developing or future relationships.

Read between those lines however you wish!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Ok, I am reading between the lines. Are you sure this isn't the three month jitters?
rstar

Jaci Clark said...

Alright, I'll give it a shot...

1. Do all men need to be admired/desired by all women (or as many women as possible)? Yes. Men are sexual beings and therefor must be desired by as many women as possible to feel like a man.

2. When a man says, "I'm in love with you", isn't it safe to assume that he's going to narrow his focus to only you? Absolutely!

And what are you supposed to think when he continues on and on with his broad focus? That he's just not that into you and he's telling you what he thinks you want to hear so he can continue to have sex with you all the while searching for his "Ms. Right"

3. Do men recognize the difference between truly needy and controlling/manipulative? Nope. They are all just women with the potential for sex.

4. Do men understand that women can be very manipulative? Or do they translate that into neediness or interest? Men don't understand or care about the differences unless it get them sex.


5. Does the man exist who truly embraces monogamy? Embraces it? No. Willing to do it for the woman they love..yes. And you deserve that!!!

Anonymous said...

What you are saying is that you've been on Match.com and you can tell Mr. Right has also been on the site recently. Why is that, you ask? If he is "in love" with you, he wouldn't still be visiting the site. Silly girl! You know the truth. Now, confront him! Buck up! Be brave, courageous and bold!