More walking around inside my mind

The PianoLady has the best suggestion thus far:

It sounds as though being near the kids is a priority. What are the job opportunities like in Youngstown? If I were you, I'd hold off on the Cunard cruise job until you're retired......
You have so much technical knowledge, it seems a shame to let that go. Maybe you could have a B&B in Youngstown, work freelance in the technical field, sew in a spare room, sell your wearable art to your guests, and play cocktail piano for them in the evenings!

I'm loving that idea!